Dad and their daughters have a very special relationship that can be expressed only by emotions in eyes and no combination of these 26 alphabets in English can actually depict the feeling of this relation. A father is daughter’s first hero and first love. Any man can qualify to be the partner of a girl only if he has the same qualities as that of her father. A father is definitely the standard against which she judges her life partner or other men. Having a father is like having permanent armor for the rest of your life. A father is the biggest inspiration for the daughter and the beauty of the relation is that daughter is also the biggest inspiration for the father. The aspect that will leave you astonished is that father considers her daughter to be her best gift and vice versa. Thus it is a relationship that is mutual.
I also have a very special relationship with my papa, it is full of love, care, smiles, laughter and giggles. The memories of my childhood are still fresh in my mind. I remember I used to climb on my father’s scooter and ask for a ride. No matter what I was so adamant that there was nothing that could stop me. My father in spite of all his busy schedule or being tied up never denied me. My mom would shout on me and ask me to refrain myself from going but my father with a smile on his face would take me for the ride. After the passage of time when I am mother to little princess and see them doing the same with my husband, it gets me misty eyed. My husband no matter, or could be busy like a bee but firstly takes his girls out for a ride and then only relax.
My mother would scold me to discipline me but my father would never do the same. He would always be on my side asking my mom not scold me. He would explain the situation to me ask my inputs on it and correct me if I was wrong but never scold me. I am my dad’s princess and similar to this my dolls are their father’s princess and no matter what he would only explain the matter to them but never scold them.
In situations where I could not decide or accept the things as they are my father would make sure that I am explained the stuff. He would help me to make informed decisions. My husband also would ask his kids of their decision and thoughts over matter. He would never compel them to do things. Rather give them the liberty to fly in the sky but with his morals and values keeps them grounded. My husband is their mentor and guide and helps them with all aspects of their life.
The relationship between a father and daughter remains to the same. The flavor may change but the essence remains the same. A father is the only man who would never hurt his dolls and fulfill all their dreams and desires. The two important of men of my life are always there to support the lady luck.
Well I am guilty of misusing the love of my father whenever there was a fight between my brother and me, but well I was his doting daughter. And it was right to do so. Just like my father added pixie dust to my life by his mere presence my husband does the same for my kids and this is what makes me fall for him all over again. Truly said only a real man can be father and my father and husband proved this right. My father loved me unconditionally and he loved my mother all the more just for the reason of giving birth to me. This is what earned him respect in leaps and bounds. My husband claims that he loved me but after I gave him the gift of fatherhood his love for me has increased manifolds.
Whatever I am or I have achieved in life is just because my father trusted me he always exclaimed proudly that she is my daughter. These words are my pillar of strength and may what come these lines can never be snatched away from me. His trust on me has Always strived me to be a better human being.
This post is written for a #SuperHero Father’s Day blog train where 24 passionate bloggers are sharing their love for their superheoes . This Blog train is organised by ME & my friend Priyanka Patwari ,She is a lifestyle and parenting blogger and a mommy of her li’l angel .she blogs at www.flavorsofworld.com so don’t forget to check her blog for some super awesome articles.
Today is the final day of this blog train and its the last stop so I want to thanks to Nehal Roy for sending train to my stop and introducing me, also I want to thanks to my fellow bloggers who participated in this beautiful journey of love and shared their amazing real life stories and immense love for their father.
See you all in next post till than bye bye !!